Consider not that Allâh is unaware of that which the Zâlimûn (polytheists, wrong-doers, etc.) do, but He gives them respite up to a Day when the eyes will stare in horror. 14:42
On the Day of Judgment, Allah will ask the men if they fulfilled their obligations towards their families.
Those who fear Allah will do their best to direct the way their wife and children live, by educating himself and his family to live according to the Sunnah (sayings, teachings and actions) of the Prophet (Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam - may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and the Holy Qur'an, the final word of Allah.
The Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said, "The best of you is the best one to his family." [Al-Tabarani]
One must: provide food and (decent) clothes for his wife as he provides himself, refrain from beating her, and ignoring her outside the house (in public). [Ahmad]
One should not hate his believer wife. If he dislikes some of her attitudes, he would (surely) like others (aspects of her). [Muslim]
Take care of the women, for they are created from a rib, and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion, so, if you should try to straighten it, it will break, but if you leave it as it is, it will remain crooked. [Al-Bukhari]
Perform (voluntary) fasts (some days) and do not fast (in other days), pray at night (some nights) and sleep (in other nights). Your body has a right over you (to rest), your eye has a right on you (to sleep), and your wife has a right on you. [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]
Fear Allah in (treating) women. [Muslim]
Be advised to treat women righteously. [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]
And live with them (spouse) honorably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing that Allah brings through it a great deal of good. [4:19]
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said,"A Dinar (a currency) that you spend on your family, a Dinar that you spend on a poor person and a Dinar that you spend in the sake of Allah. The one that carries the most reward is the one that you spend on your family." [Muslim]
The Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said to Saaid ibn Abi Waqqas,"Know that no charity that you give whether small or large, for the sake of Allah, but you will be rewarded for it, even the morsel (of food) that you put in your wife's mouth." [Bukhari & Muslim]